How to Be Proactive During the 8-Year Cycle: 5 Key's

Greetings, beautiful people! 2025 is bringing some powerful stuff with Venus retrograde-portal, and it’s the perfect time to reassess love, relationships, and our sense of self-worth. Go back 8 years and observe where you were and how you were living in 2017. That portal was advantageous and was the beginning of The House of Oshun! Omg. Anywho, do you have something to pick up from that era? Whatever it may be, there is a reminder in that era, and I'm dropping a little 1, 2 for you to do!

With Venus moving from Aries to Pisces, it's time for self-reflection, emotional healing, and transformation! I'm sharing a 5-step guide to help build your confidence, passion, and focus. Consult your favorite astrologer or app for alignment and clarity. Remember, it's okay to seek assistance as nobody knows everything. Whether you're in a relationship or focusing on yourself, these steps will guide you through this influence.

Everything revolves around relationships, even if you live in isolation, because nothing communicates without a relationship. Ask any adept metaphysician or spiritualist. The relationship you have with yourself is most important and is reflected in your relationships with others.

Sidebar: The Narcissist vs. Empath series plays directly into all of this going on. As we tap in and prepare for a lil' emotional healing, self-worth, and understanding our relationship dynamics, these insights will help you navigate toxic patterns and find balance in your connections. Part 3 of 9 is coming next Tuesday.

The 5 Action packed Steps reveal Keys

All I know is, I'm not what I was, and it's interesting to review. Whew. Time is going by whether we partake in life or not. Let's get ready to dive in with excitement and enthuse-the-fuck-ism! The following are the five steps you can add to your A.S.E. Tool Box. As you go through them, jot down any thoughts that pop into your mind (triggers) for future reference. And hey, don't be too hard on yourself! Reflect on 2017 by exploring your iCloud, Google Docs, journal, text messages, Facebook, Instagram, or any other storage you can access to recall who you were and what you were up to back then.

Discover what worked, what didn’t, and what you can bring into the present to launch yourself even further. Stop looking for magic and be the magic by doing the work! Sign up for my Poppet class on 3/8/2025 here and use code: Venus2025 for $15 off before 2/5/2025. Let’s goooo!

Sidebar: It is always a good thing to research the metaphysical meaning of what you are going through and how you can remedy the situation. Also, a law that governs you may be metaphysical means, which have a lot to do with right thought and right action. The only caveat is if it has gone unnoticed or diagnosed to the point of utilizing an actual medical doctor or traditional healer. Holistic healing.

Step 1: reflection -key

This Venus retrograde in Aries encourages self-reflection on your passions, desires, and assertiveness. It's all about you and how you do what you do.

1. I encourage you to think about how well you've been honoring your true desires.

2. Are you actively chasing your passions, or have you been sacrificing too much for others? Let's admit it, people will either be the reason for your downfall or your up leveling. I was listening to a podcast last night, and the guest said the realest thing, which also inspired this post. He said, "people don't usually want what you give them; they often want what you have" or your spot for their own superficial means.

3. This is the moment to reevaluate your approach to love and relationships with a focus on personal empowerment.

4. Journal about the areas in your life where you’ve been holding back your true desires.

5. Challenge yourself to be honest—what do you really want, and how can you assertively take steps toward it?

"True desires" refer to the genuine, deep-seated wants and aspirations that come from within a person, often considered to be beyond superficial desires influenced by external factors, representing what someone truly values and wants to achieve in life, rather than simply what they think they "should" want; essentially, the things that bring a deep sense of fulfillment and meaning when pursued. 

Step 2: Reassess - key

You may feel the energetic shifts from bold action and self-focus to deep emotional healing and compassion. Spend some time reflecting on both the passion and emotional depth in your relationships.

1. Take an active look at where you're asserting yourself in relationships

2. Explore the emotional and spiritual connection in your interactions with others, tie it all together.

3. Are your relationships grounded in emotional resonance, or are they driven by surface-level desires?

4. How can you attract and not chase, allowing yourself to embrace a more empathetic, intuitive approach to how you relate? If you’re feeling unsure about your intuition or stuck in any area of your life, I’m here to help you reconnect and find clarity. Book a consultation with me, and together we’ll get you back in alignment, trusting your instincts and moving forward with confidence.

   
   
   
   

Step 3: Self Worth and healing - key

When Venus moves into this Piscean influence, it will encourage introspection on your emotional wounds (Chiron—your wound and super-power once healed and mastered) and self-worth (Sun). During the retrograde, you may feel more sensitive or open to past hurts, but this presents an opportunity for deep emotional healing.

1. What can you do to soften your perspective on yourself and forgive past mistakes?

2. How can you heal from the inside out, so you can reclaim your personal value and self-love?

3. Engage in healing practices like meditation, art, or spiritual rituals to connect with your subconscious. Pisces loves intuitive practices. Locate where she sits in your chart and how you can bring that energy or archetype to the forefront for this part of the 5 to-dos. Or look to your South Node for practices you've already mastered and bring them into this lifetime with an oomph.

Step 4: Release - Ancestral key

It's time once again to let that shit go and let that ho know, aka release old patterns or attachments. It is important to release in order to ascend and spiritually expand! During this time you might be confronted with the need to release the defensive or combative attitudes that have limited your growth.

1. Which old emotional attachments or negative patterns can you release in your interpersonal and intrapersonal relationships that no longer serve you?

2. Where in your body are you holding on to emotional baggage from Tony or Tina? Once you have correctly identified and taken action in these areas of your life, you will see a dramatic change in your weight, especially in the area most affected.

3. Write a letter of forgiveness to yourself or others and burn, soak, or what have. Feel through it to be fully renewed.I know holding a grudge will cause a little bulge, darling. Why carry the burden of another when they've moved on with their life? Get it together.

This is a powerful and expansive time for emotional cleansing. If you're ready to transform and overcome what's holding you back, I’m here to help you. Change takes intention and effort, and together we’ll master each step with purpose. Book a consultation, and let's turn perceived weaknesses into powerful strengths, so you can step into your fullest potential.

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Step 5: Intentions - Major key

Now for the good part once you've sat with and competed the prior 4 steps. It's time to set intentions for the future post RX this will be like an Aries and Pisces Integration. I really like it. Now then, by then end of the RX you’ll have a clearer understanding of your desires (thanks to Aries bossy ass) and emotional needs (thanks to Pisces sensitive tail self). T

1. Set clear, actionable intentions that honor both your personal aspirations and your emotional well-being.

2. Find a balance between passion and emotional depth.

3. How and where can you feel both empowered and deeply connected?

4. Create a vision board or write a new set of goals that reflect your understanding of both your independence and your need for emotional harmony.

5. Focus on aligning your future with your true self, combining action with intuition.

In ConclusionT - Final key

As we move through this collectively, it’s natural to feel uncertain about where to begin or how to navigate the changes in your relationships and self-worth. If you're struggling with insecurities or lack of clarity about what areas to focus on, I’m a phone call or class away.

Through a personalized consultation, we can dive deep into your unique situation and uncover the steps you need to take to heal and grow during this powerful time.

I invite you to share your thoughts in the comments below—how are you feeling about this Venus retrograde? Let’s support each other through this super important journey. And if you know someone who could benefit from this guidance, feel free to share this post with your family and friends (18+). We’re all in this wild ass shift together! The other planets are doing a thing but this feels super important it's like a portal of sorts.